Am I being unfair? - My friend(s) have got married way too young!?

being young and being immature are two different things. you are young but not THAT young. you are, however, very immature. my sister in law was married at 23, she did not have her first kid until about 32 she and my brother had loads of fun as a married couple. you sound very jealous that your friend will no longer want to be going out with you guys. your friends who are talking about their future are SMART because that time will fly quicker then you would ever imagine. i can't believe where my 20's went or for that matter my 30's! people used to tell me that and i thought they were full of "it".... i know better now. i'm sorry you don't give two hoots about your future, thankfully some of your friends do - maybe their maturity about reality will rub off on you.